Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year!


We have had a wonderful, but busy, holiday season! I think it's just going to be this way with three kids from now on! My mother visited us for three days right after we got out of school on Dec. 18, then we went down to Camden, AR, for two days to visit Stuart's family. The kids enjoyed seeing their cousins who were in from Ohio, even though it was a whirlwind trip. Arden is finally starting to travel better and is enjoying sitting in her new booster seat instead of the toddler convertable car seat. I think she's a lot more comfortable now.

We enjoyed a low-key Christmas in Bentonville where the kids woke up in our house to open stockings and gifts on Christmas morning. Hudson's best gift was a Wii Poke Park video game while Owen's was an XBox360 Madden '11 game. Arden has enjoyed her new dollhouse and Melissa and Doug wooden doll bed and highchair for her baby dolls. Santa brought Stuart a Kindle electronic reader, so he has been enjoying figuring it all out!

My Christmas dinner didn't turn out very well, as Stuart informed me that my turkey breast tasted "funny," so we weren't sure if maybe the meat had started going bad after thawing several days in the fridge while we were traveling. So, we packed up the kids (still in their Christmas pjs) and headed towards the only restaurant open on Christmas Day -- IHOP! It was a long wait and totally packed, but it made for a fun event to eat breakfast food with a full restaurant of people on Christmas Day! We might make IHOP an annual Christmas Day tradition while the kids are still young. They enjoyed Make-a-Face pancakes a lot more than mom's turkey meal!

This week of our Christmas break has been full of appointments with four dental appointments, Arden's birthday, and some playdates with the kids' friends. Arden did so well at her first dental appointment, and she is in the 85th percentile in height and weight at her 3 year old check up.

Arden got her twin bed assembled right before Christmas, too. I had purchased the sleigh bed frame from Craiglist almost a year ago for $50 and kept it in the garage until Arden was ready. She was a little fearful for the first few nights since it is such a tall bed, but she is now completely adjusted to it and enjoying it. I was a bit sad to pack up her final remnants of her infancy, but her twin sleigh bed is so adorable that it has been fun to see her progress to this stage. I gave away her crib and sold the baby mattress, and I'm still trying to sell her crib bedding on Craigslist.

We have enjoyed spending a lot of time together over the break, and we have been staying up too late and sleeping in, so now we have to get back to the reality of our regular school schedule over the next couple of days. I'm sure we will have a few days of adjustment next week! I don't think the boys are looking forward to doing homework again, but they are excited to return to school to see friends. If this January is anything like the previous two years in northwest Arkansas, I'm sure we will have some snow days to enjoy at home in the next month!

Happy New Year!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Top Ten




It's been so long since my last post, and if you know me well, then you are probably my friend on Facebook where I do a lot better at posting since it can just be one random sentence! As the holidays approached, things got so busy, and posting just couldn't get to the top of my long list!

So, here are the TOP TEN things I can think of that have been highlights of the past six weeks:

10. Hudson won the handwriting of the week award (believe me, it's a BIG deal!)
9. We went to Branson the weekend before Thanksgiving to see the Christmas shows and lights. I soon realized that I'm not one for 90 minute waits for shows when it is freezing,plus Arden was getting sick (see #5 below)
8. Owen participated in a school book club for 4th graders over The Voyage of the Dawn Treader
7. Stuart shopped like a crazy person on Black Friday and went to both the midnight and 4 a.m. sales! I slept in!
6. Hudson went ice skating for the first time at a birthday party which was held at the new outdoor skating rink
5. Arden got a double ear infection 1 1/2 weeks ago, and she was such a trooper that I didn't take her to the doctor until it was apparently pretty bad, so I felt terrible.
4. My students at school collected gifts for 3 siblings for Christmas and purchased coats, jeans, shirts, shoes, and toys for each child. It was amazing to see their generosity!
3. I attended the fabulous "I Get 2 Give" event at our church where you win gifts that you then give to someone else. It was a lot of fun.
2. I have Arden's crib mattress and crib bedding for sale on Craigslist and (finally) plan to move her to a twin bed over Christmas break.
1. Both boys were in the Bentonville Christmas parade (Hudson with Cub Scouts and Owen played in the Swamp Band for his school and marched). I got to ride the float with Hudson and wave at the people! It was sort of like my dreams of fame from my childhood, even though I was sitting on a haybale and wasn't wearing a crown!

Have a wonderful week! I'll post more and add pics once school is out -- only four more days!!! Whooo hooo!

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Halloween and Parties Galore!








We had an awesome time in Branson last Sunday with perfect weather that was sunny but not too hot. There still were very few crowds at Silver Dollar City, so we are thinking that Sundays are the day to go! The first few pictures we took in the morning show the kids all alone in the streets there, so it looks like we are there all by ourselves instead of at a theme park! We discovered the teacup ride this time which ended up being the kids' favorite, and I think Owen rode it ten times. Arden went on the mini-rollercoaster and survived it. She was a bit scared and didn't want to go again, but she didn't cry. We saw a hilarious saloon comedy show that we hadn't seen yet, and Hudson left with some more jokes to tell his teacher at school (he is the biggest joker and reads joke books!).

Stuart's big news is that he finally got his new professional Nikon SLR camera that he has been wanting for years and years! It was a big purchase, but he loves photography so much and has been wanting a good digital camera to do more artistic, nature stuff. Hopefully, we'll also get some good pictures of the kids, too!

The week before Halloween always seems to be CRAZY with school activities! Owen has his last football game this morning (yea!), so that will help our lives calm down a bit with no weekly practice and game anymore. All three kids had fall parties yesterday in their classrooms, and the boys' school let them dress up and wear their costumes to school for the school-wide parade. Owen didn't like the prince costume which I got him at a consignment sale. Apparently, it was too feminine and not "cool" enough! So, he opted to wear his Arkansas football jersey which he already owned and put black paint under his eyes to be football player. Hudson was a red Power Ranger, and he was happy to report that he got lots of comments about how "awesome" it was. Arden will be a happy witch, and I found this adorable tulle and velvet costume at a consignment sale for her that is mainly purple and black and really sweet. However, she asked me yesterday if she would get to have the stick that comes out of her bottom to go with it (the broomstick) since that's what it looks like to her when she's seen billboards around with Halloween pictures on them! Ha! Everyone had fun at the parties, and we are all looking forward to Trick or Treating in our neighborhood and helping at our church Trunk or Treat on Sunday!

I had parent-teacher night on Tuesday, so I was at school from 8 a.m. until 8:30 p.m. with no break! What a marathon. The parent-teacher conferences began at 4:15, so we only had a quick break to grab a bite to eat before heading to the gym for arena style conferences. I had 37 conferences, so I don't think I stopped at all until 7:00, then I got to grade a few papers while I waited. It made the whole rest of the week exhausting to begin with such a long day. I'm glad it's over, and there isn't another day like that until March! Additionally, our school had an accreditation inspection from the Department of Education on Tuesday, and two people were on campus to ask questions, observe, etc. They ended up coming in my room and watching for a bit, then I got asked questions about my lesson plans, standards, 504 plans, parent contact log, etc. Luckily, it was easy, and I knew all the answers and had all my documents in order since the principal had warned us to get everything all gathered up ahead of time.

It was Red Ribbon Week at all the schools this week, so the kids wanted to dress up each day for the various themes (hat day, red day, etc), plus I had a lot of activities and extra assemblies going on during my workdays in my building, too.

Then tonight, Stuart is taking the boys to a Razorback football game in Fayettevelle since we were given last-minute, free tickets! They will have so much fun. I am opting to stay home where it's warm with Arden.

I attempted a fall craft this week which is much more like the old me (before I went back to teaching full-time and have no free time anymore). It was fun to gather all the supplies this week, but the craft didn't work out as I had hoped. I was trying to replicate a picture in Pottery Barn that had indian corn wrapped around a large glass candle holder, but my indian corn husks wouldn't bend, wouldn't stand up straight, kept slipping on the glass and leaning, etc. So, I finally gave up and just stuck them inside the glass container and wrapped the jute around the outside of the glass. It looks really good on the dining room table, but it isn't the candle holder that I was hoping for. Oh well. It was still fun to try to make something again.

So, that is the end of our fun and crazy week. We've all had too much candy (except Stuart who doesn't even like candy), and I am officially sick of candy corn!

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Fall


I love fall . . . the crisp air, the changing colors on the trees, pumpkins on porches, and candy corn! Yes, I am on my third bag of candy corn this month!

The wood floors were installed about six weeks ago in my hallway, dining room, and home office, and I love them! The installation was relatively painless and all done in one day while I was at work! So, we didn't have any half-finished flooring to stay off in the evening with the kids which was wonderful. On the second day, the men came back and finished up the transitions and trim around the baseboards, then we had the task of moving all the books and office electronics back into the office. So far, the floors are just what I was hoping and show little dust or dirt. They really warm up the space, and I can't wait to do the great room next! Maybe we will be able to do that this spring . . .

The kids are doing well, and the boys got straight A's for first quarter. I can't believe second quarter and the holidays are almost upon us. I have bought all of Arden's Christmas presents, birthday gifts, and stocking stuffers, so I'm thankful for some headway. We went to Silver Dollar City a few weekends ago, and Stuart recently went to Atlanta for four days to the Catalyst conference.

Stuart had a birthday this month (let's just say that he's getting closer to fifty than forty-five now!), and Hudson has begun reading so well! I'm so proud of him. Arden is a whirlwind of words and energy, but she is constantly funny! One of her favorite expressions now is, "I'm just joking!" She has learned her ABC's, and she is counting pretty well, too. I can hardly believe she will be three in a few months.

School is going really well, but I'm still busy all the time. I am in a much better routine than last year with some things, but the grading will be busy forever! I have gotten some family routines down, but meals are still really hard to do during the week since I don't get home until almost five on most days. Luckily, Stuart isn't picky, and the kids will eat a sandwich or cereal for dinner if necessary.

Owen has been playing flag football this season for the first time, and he is really enjoying it. Hudson also started Cub Scouts and likes it a lot. I will be glad when football ends, so that we have more free weekday night, but it has been really good for Owen.

We are headed back to Silver Dollar City this weekend for one last trip to their fall festival. It's so wonderful to have Branson only 90 minutes from our house, so it is an easy day trip. Now that Arden is older, we have no diaper bags or sippy cups and can travel light! Owen will want to ride roller coasters while Arden will ride Dumbo. Stuart will eat a funnel cake, and Hudson will want to buy a huge bag of fudge. Good times!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

4 Days Left!!!!

Only 4 more days with the old, tired, and stained carpet in my hallway -- the hallway which leads in from the garage that has had lots of traffic, spills, and is currently buckling in the middle. So long to the carpet in my dining room which prevents us from wanting to eat in there, lest we spill and stain it, so that it looks like the hallway!! In 4 more days, I will get the hardwood flooring which we have purchased installed. It is currently sitting in my kitchen in 22 boxes as it "acclimates" until next Tuesday morning. The installers will be here shortly after I leave for school on Tuesday, and they will be done on Wednesday. Before then, Stuart and I have to pack up all the books, breakable items, and electronics and move them out of the dining room and office. If anyone has seen our book collection, you know that it will take awhile! Ha. I'm so excited to have wood flooring again, and I hope that it looks as great as I think it will.We went with a more casual, distressed style wood planking this time in a five inch board in order to hide any future dents and wear from kiddos. Also, I went lighter in color and low in sheen (to hide footprints, smudges, and dust). I learned from my last house that darker wood with a high sheen is a lot of maintenance for it to look clean. In any case, it will remain cleaner and wear better than the old carpet with three active kids in heavy traffic areas! I'll post before and after pics next week. I'm praying there aren't any glitches with the installation and that the process will be relatively stress-free!

Monday, August 23, 2010

Getting in the Groove

I have been back to work full-time since August 6 which seems like a life time ago! We had weeks of endless meetings (or so it seems) which always confirms to me that I would die if I had an office job that revolved around sitting and attending meetings on a permanent basis. I much prefer running my own "classroom show" and being up and moving all day long.

I have now had three days with my students, and I think it will be a good bunch. However, most seventh graders are scared enough for the first few weeks that it's hard to tell their true colors this early! ha! Right now, they all seem pretty eager and/or intimidated. I finally begin teaching literature tomorrow after three days of rules, policies, ice breaker games, library orientation, etc. Every year at this time, I feel like I am drowning in paper work. There are so many forms to collect from the signed syllabus contract to the emergency cards to the health forms. Then, it's my job to check off the items for each student, alphabetize cards, and get things turned into the office. With all our technology, there must surely be a better way than this! I think teachers in the 1950s were sorting back-to-school forms in this exact manner. Maybe if I figure out a better way, I can hit the jackpot and invent something that will revolutionize the teaching world like the Post-It!

I've decided to try to start up a mentoring program with my students and a couple of classes at an elementary school that is right across the street from my campus. I'm hoping to get enough interest for three classes to let my students "adopt" their younger kids and be "big brothers/sisters" to promote literacy by coming into their classroom once every quarter. I'm also starting a community service emphasis each quarter with my classes this year to encourage them to see giving as a normal part of their expected life. For one week during first quarter, we will begin by collecting items for Snack Packs for Kids, then each class will adopt a family during second quarter to purchase Christmas presents for them. I hope it will be a good experience for my students.

Well, I need to get to bed soon. I will try to do a better job of updating my blog! I think that after next week, I will not have any more evening meetings to attend which will help. This Thursday is our school's open house where we meet the parents, and it is always fun but tiring. Believe me, in pre-AP classes EVERY parent attends, so it's a packed house!

The kids are doing well in school, although Owen has gotten in trouble for talking already. I can't imagine where he gets that! ha. I hope they have a great year and have teachers who will pour into them lots of attention and inspiration, as that's what I strive to do each day to 75 other kiddos. Thankfully, Arden is readjusting to her return to preschool very well, and it is 100% better than this time last year! She hasn't had a single potty accident at school while in underwear! She's even stayed dry overnight a few nights recently, so we may be wearing underwear at nights soon, too! I'm thankful that potty training was so easy with her. Arden hasn't been overly clingy and crying in the evenings, and she loves her friends and school. I'm thankful for those wonderful ladies who are called to teach 3 year olds!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Back to School

The summer is basically over for me, and it went by way too quickly! Now, I am not happy that we had 1 1/2 weeks of snow days that took away our days out in June (however, I was thrilled in January when I got to be home!). Arden went back to preschool full-time this week for the first time after being out for seven weeks, so I was a bit anxious about her adjustment. She returned to the same school with the same kids and staff, so it has seemed to be an easy switch for her. She hasn't had any bad mornings getting up yet, but we will have to get up even earlier next week when I have meetings to get to and the boys to drop off too. She only cried a little this morning when I left her, but she stopped after a minute. She has also worn her "big girl" underwear to school all day this week, and she hasn't had a single accident this week! Yea! Once I switched her to regular underwear, she has pretty much been using the potty on her own without me prompting her and never has accidents at home. I'm only using Pull Ups for naps and overnight now.

The boys start Adventure Club at their elementary school this Friday through August 17 while I'm at a conference and in teacher inservice meetings prior to the students' first day. They will be at their local elementary school with teachers who plan a full-time program of activities for them. Hopefully, they will have some of the same teachers and friends attending as last year, and I hope it is still a fun time for them that feels more like vacation than school. They return to regular school on August 19 for the first student day. Both boys got the teachers that I requested for them (district employees can make teacher preferences for their own children in most buildings in our district), so I hope that it will be a good fit and strong year for each of them.

I have taken the boys up to my school for two half days this week (4 hours yesterday and 3 hours today) to work on unpacking and decorating my classroom. We had to pack up every single item before we left for the summer and box it all. Teachers had to empty bookshelves, take all posters down, empty our teacher desk, etc. since the entire school was being painted. Luckily, this shouldn't happen next year, but I returned this year with just as much to do in my room as a new teacher all over again! I am in the same classroom, and I bought some new posters, a used bookcase, and had a student paint a 5 foot canvas mural for a large wall. So, I am happy with how it is looking! I'm not an elementary teacher who has to cover every surface from ceiling to floor and do elaborate bulletin boards, but I do like a "themed" room with cuteness. My theme is "Life is a Highway" and I had the mural done with that saying and a landscape of a car driving down the highway into the sunset. Then, I found a lot of highway themed posters ("U turn in homework, U get good grades," "Learning Zone," "0 excuse limit," "Stop and Read" etc.) I also put a large bulletin board lined with maps that is titled, "Travel through plot" with the plot diagram and literary terms on it. I brought in an old area rug I had in my attic, some discarded faux greenery, and I rescued an old maple drop leaf table from another teacher who didn't want it. Overall, it feels a lot more like "my" room this year! Usually, I would decorate during the work day next week, but I am missing it due to a pre-AP teacher's conference that I have to attend for two days in Fayetteville since I am required to get 12 hours of professional development in gifted/talented in order to be the team leader for that specialty on my campus.

I am finishing up appointments and haircuts with the boys on Thursday and mainly staying home to rest. My first full day of meetings is Friday.

It's been around 102 degrees here this week, and it's sooooo hot! I'm glad the earlier part of the summer was cooler, but I hope I don't begin the school year with outside lunch or bus duty, or I might faint in the heat!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

I will give you rest

I've been thinking a lot lately about how stressful our lives have seemed for the past three years. I feel like I could star in a soap opera with all the events and drama that seem to have been a part of our lives recently! I am really praying that for this school year we have peace and rest. I don't want to experience any tragedies or deaths of family members this year, and I would like to feel like we only have to deal with the "regular" stuff -- even if just for this year. We just really need life to be less painful and less hectic, so we can catch our breath.

In case you don't know us or can't remember, here is a short recap of all of the stressful events we've gone through since 2006:

Nov, 2006: my dad entered final stage of cancer and entered home hospice care.
Jan, 2007: my father died
Aug, 2007: my niece was stillborn
Dec, 2007: Arden was born (a happy time, but still involved sleep deprivation and illnesses for the first year)
June, 2008: Stuart found out his job would most likely be ending and began a job search
Oct, 2008: Stuart accepted a job in Bentonville, AR, and moved there on Dec. 1 to begin work; my mother also had hip replacement surgery
Dec, 2008: we moved to Bentonville and faced the task of unpacking a semi-truck worth of belongings
Jan, 2009: my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and had a double masectomy
Aug, 2009: I accepted a last minute teaching job and returned to the classroom full-time for the first time in 8 years; Arden began daycare for the first time at age 20 months
Aug, 2009: Stuart's dad was diagnosed with bladder cancer and began treatment
Feb, 2010: Stuart's dad went downhill and entered final stage of terminal cancer
April, 2010: Stuart's dad died
May, 2010: I was diagnosed with a possible jaw tumor and scheduled for a biopsy
June, 2010: I underwent oral surgery on my jaw bone and had a several week recovery. Thankfully, the mass was benign.

So, we have lost two parents to cancer, gotten two new jobs, gained a new baby, moved across the state, and had several health scares all since 2007.

I'm praying that this year is uneventful! I know God is faithful, and we are still managing to find joy and happiness in every event, but I would like a bit of rest every now and again!

Road Trip

As summer is coming to a close, I felt the need to do something different and vacation-like before going back to work. The thing that I most wanted to do (and could afford) was go and see old friends back in Cabot and Little Rock. I decided to embark on a road trip last week with the three kids all by myself, as Stuart still had to stay in Bentonville for work.

We took one bag of pool gear and one bag for the hotel, and that's it! I wanted to pack light, so that I could manage to get it all into the hotel on my own, especially if a certain 2 year old decided to have a tantrum! We left Wednesday morning and returned Thursday night, and we were able to stay at a hotel in Little Rock for FREE with some hotel points we had accumulated. All of our meals were with friends, so gas was the only expense.

This was a trial run of how far I could travel alone with Arden since I've never driven with her out of town by myself. She is normally a terrible traveler who never sleeps in the car and cries/screams for much of the long drive. Amazingly enough, she did GREAT on the trip and was only mildly fussy for short periods on the three hour drive down. We arrived at noon with a picnic lunch in the van that I had brought with us and went to Splash Zone in Jacksonville to meet friends. We ate our lunch at the park next door (though the kids were too excited to eat anything!) and went swimming with the Burlesons and the Hollaways. The kids had so much fun returning to their favorite Cabot area water activity. We have so many great memories there!

Then we drove up the highway to Cabot and briefly stopped by our old house and neighborhood as well as Owen's old school. It was bittersweet to see our old life. I remembered taking Owen to his first day of kindergarten there and bringing Hudson and Arden home from the hospital. I remembered that those were my main years of being a stay-at-home mom, and how different (but good) my life is now. We spontaneously dropped by the Vances and visited with Angie and her boys for about 45 minutes before heading to the McElroys where we were spending the rest of the evening.

I had such a good time visiting with one of my best friends from Cabot, Kristy McElroy, who is pregnant with baby #4 in October!! Our children are all friends and close in age, and the boys had fun swimming for a second time that day in their backyard pool after we ate a pizza dinner. Our brief visit was over much too soon when it was time to make the drive into Little Rock to check into our hotel.

We arrived at 9 p.m. in our hotel, and Arden hadn't had a nap all day. The kids loved the hotel, although Arden was very scared to ride the glass elevator to our room on the 9th floor, and we had to force her to get in the elevator everytime we rode it. Amazingly enough, the kids obeyed so well, and we all fell asleep very quickly, with Arden sharing a bed with me and not a crib. She didn't fall out of the hotel bed (which is another first!) and slept well all night, except for the fact that she kept kicking me in the head!

We ate a big breakfast which was included with our stay at the hotel, then we loaded up our luggage to check out. The only glitch in my trip was that when we tried to get into our van on Thursday morning, the car battery was DEAD! So, I went into the hotel to see if they would let me back in my room and found out that a hotel employee could jump start it for me, so I wouldn't have to wait for roadside assistance to come. Luckily, the car started quickly, and there wasn't any other more significant problem with the van. I had initially feared that I would have to get it towed to the dealership and be stranded in the hotel for another night while my car was being repaired. We then set off to hit Mardel's since we don't have one in my area, and I got some great posters and items to decorate my classroom. The kids twisted my arm to get each of them a Webkins, which I probably gave into since I was just so happy and thankful that my vehicle was running again!

Finally, we drove to Maumelle around 10:30 and spent the next few hours with long-time friend Christine Franklin and her kids. The kids loved playing in their big backyard and playing "hide and seek." We ate lunch with Christine, and her "rainbow popsicles" were a big hit; my kids are still talking about them! We left Little Rock around 2:00, so we would be home by dinner.

The kids all crashed and slept for much of the three hour drive home, and Arden didn't wake up until we were in Springdale! It was a very fun and enjoyable trip, and it has given me more confidence to do it again now that my children are getting older. I didn't realize how much I had missed my old friends, and I know that I need to see them more often.

I love where I live now, but I love where I moved from, and I will always enjoy returning to see my old "home."

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Wordless Wednesday

Silver Dollar City, Branson

Kindergarten Graduation Luncheon

Owen as Davy Crockett for a school program

Easter 2010

Arden and best friend Cheza at school

Arden and teacher Wendy (LOVE her!!)

Benign: my new favorite word!

The pathology results for my jaw growth came back as BENIGN. Praise the Lord! I hadn't really been worried while we waited ten days for the results because the oral surgeon had told Stuart after surgery that it didn't present like a tumor and was like a bone growth. His impression of what the five most likely things it could be were all benign growths, and it did turn out to be one of the things my surgeon had mentioned. It has a long name that I don't remember (I'll get copies of my pathology report in a few days via mail), but it is almost always found in middle aged, African American women. So, that was why my doctors didn't immediately think that I would be a candidate for it.

Luckily, no future treatment is necessary. I am about 80% recovered from the biopsy procedure which involved cutting open a flap in my gum line inside my chin, cutting out a piece of the bone growth, and then stitching me back with about two inches of stitches. It has taken longer for the swelling to go away than I expected, and I still have some soreness and swelling right around the area where the biopsy was taken, plus I still have no regular feeling in my two, center bottom teeth. Hopefully, that won't be permanent due to nerve damage.

I'm so thankful that it isn't anything serious that would require more invasive surgery or loss of teeth. The only slight negative right now is that I might not be able to get adult braces (which I was seriously thinking of getting in 1-2 years when Owen gets his since my school dental plan will cover adult orthodontics). My surgeon is researching this and talking to his orthodontist friends, and I'll find out more at my final check-up in two weeks. Apparently, my four (crooked) bottom teeth might be fused into this excess bone spur and may not be able to be moved or corrected with braces. I guess I'll just live with my crooked teeth if that's the case, and I'm very thankful that I get to keep them!

Thanks so much for your prayers!

Monday, July 5, 2010

Sneak Peeks





I finally got up enough energy, time, and courage to take Arden to get an outdoor photography session with a professional photographer. We had not had a professional sitting since she was 12 months old, before we moved to NW Arkansas! So, after 18 more months, my darling daughter had changed quite a bit, and I wanted to capture her preschool personality on film.

It was a challenge to photograph her, as she NEVER sits still. Not even for five seconds straight. Plus, she talks constantly, and is very social, so we couldn't get her to really smile because she was always talking and pointing. The photo shoot was done by one of my former high school students at Pulaski Academy,Jessica Ritchie,who now lives in NW Arkansas also. She is amazingly patient and great with kids (she is a former first grade teacher), and it was a very low stress shoot. We took Arden to the University of Arkansas campus where she basically ran around barefoot for 1 hour and 40 minutes while Jessica tried to capture shots. Arden talked to strangers and random joggers, chased dogs and birds, and she basically thought the campus was full of "princess towers" and wanted to climb the steps of every academic building! The summer weather was perfect at 85 degrees in the early evening with a slight breeze.

I knew that we wouldn't get a lot (or any!) shots of Arden sitting perfectly posed and smiling for the camera because that just isn't her personality or stage at 2 1/2! However, I knew that whatever shots we got would capture her spirit and age because she was in a great mood and acting just like herself.

I was so thrilled when I found Arden's cute eyelet dress (from Gap Kids) for just $4 at the Rhea Lana consignment sale this past spring since I knew it would be good for a future photo session, and I borrowed the hairbow from my neighbor Laurie since Arden normally hates wearing them (notice that Arden had removed the bow by the middle of the session! ha).

So, here are a couple of "sneak peeks" that Jessica just posted on her blog, and I will get to see all my proofs in a week or so. I can't wait. Enjoy!

Monday, June 28, 2010

Redesign

For my 20th anniversary present to myself (August 4), I decided to redo our master bedroom bedding and accessories this summer. It was a fun project, and I tried to do it in a cost-effective way with minimal furniture purchases, sales, and no custom items.

Here is the before:







Here are the after pictures:







I liked the old "cottage" look, but we had had that bedding for almost eight years, and I was ready for different colors. I also wanted to go more tailored and less feminine, so I went with chocolate brown for a lot of the background colors and a more tailored bedding set without any ruffles. I moved out the trunk at the end of the bed,changed nightstand tables, and I also removed the heavy mirror that had previously been attached to the double dresser. Those changes really seemed to open up the space since the room isn't that large. The paint color was left the same as before, but it still feels a lot more airy.

I bought most of the items at discount stores, and I repurposed many things that I already had in the room. Here is a brief list of where I purchased the main items:

Bedding: "Audubon" by Rose Tree, Dillards
Throw pillows: Walmart
Drapes and curtain rod: Target
Burlap tablecloth and side table: www.ballarddesigns.com
Wooden nightstand: Riverside Factory Outlet, Rogers
Botanical wall prints: www.ballarddesigns.com
table lamp: Pottery Barn
vintage books: Friendly Bookstore, Rogers
tabletop frames: Hobby Lobby

I'm happy with how it turned out!

Friday, June 25, 2010

Surgery Complete

Thanks for all the prayers. I finished my oral surgery on my jaw tumor. I am only in minimal pain, but it's hard to open my mouth to eat or talk at this point without causing pain. The surgeon only took out part of the mass for the biopsy because it wasn't what he expected based on the CT scan. He said it is actually more bone-like, and not presenting like a tumor or cyst (which I think is a good thing based on his opinion). He felt that it was going to be painful and invasive to chisel out all the bony mass, and it appears that the five most likely things it could be are most likely benign. So, he felt that less pain right now was warranted, and hopefully, he won't have to go back in again to take out more. Keep praying! Pathology will take 7-10 days.

I'm resting now and trying not to talk too much. I'm on antibiotics and ibuprofin for a week, plus I have pain meds if needed. Hopefully, I will be back to my normal routine in a few days. I will be greatly relieved to get the recovery and the pathology results behind me!

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Surgery

School got out about a week ago, and I don't really feel in the summer mode yet. I had to return to school for a full-day conference this week to get my summer professional development hours in, and then I had to go back to school the next day to grade make-up final exams from students who missed the original exam date.

Stuart's mom spent the week at our house, so she helped watch the kids while I wrapped up work duties, and I used the time with her here to do a lot of appointments that were more easily done without taking three children with me! All the kids are out of childcare for the summer, and Arden will return to her daycare/preschool during the first week of August to get back in a routine before I return the following week for inservice days. I took Owen to the pediatrician for a check-up, and both boys went to the dentist and got haircuts.

I had a follow-up appointment on Tuesday with an oral maxillofacial surgeon. After my dental appointment three weeks ago, the dentist saw an abnormal shadow on my x-ray and referred me to the oral surgeon to get it checked out as a possible cyst in my jaw bone. The surgeon did a head CT scan which confirmed that there is a partially solid/partially fluid mass inside my lower mandible in the chin area. It is around 1 inch wide by 3/4 inch thick. It is now classified as a "mixed tumor" and not just a cyst since it is partially solid. It is impeding circulation to my lower front teeth, and two of my teeth's roots are embedded in the mass. I have experienced slight teeth sensitivity in those teeth over the past couple of months, which is a result of the growth. The surgeon said it must come out, and it will be sent to pathology as a precaution. I have oral surgery set up for Friday, June 25, under sedation. I will have the growth removed and end up with about a 2 inch incision with stitches inside my mouth. He said the recovery/pain would be similar to wisdom teeth removal.

Please pray that the biopsy results show a benign mass, so that no further treatment or surgery is needed. Also, please pray the this procedure goes smoothly with no infections, complications, and a fast recovery. I think I will have to wear an external taped dressing on my chin for 4-5 days to support my chin muscles as they heal, since he said he has to cut through them to get to my jaw bone. So, I might not be leaving the house much for the week after surgery!

Friday, May 28, 2010

Goodbyes

We are winding down the school year. Our last "full" week is over, and now we are into the snow make-up days.

Next week we will have four days of class, but two of them are final exam days. Then, we will end with the last two final exam days on June 7 and 8. Nothing about next week will be normal with locker clean out, talent show, final exam review, and all the other scheduling changes that end the school year.

So, I ended this week sort of feeling like the end was near. My students did CD project presentations during the last two days which went along with their literature circle novel from fourth quarter. The songs were fun to listen to, and it was a nice way to end the week. Except that it made me a bit reflective and teary when I listened to some of the sad songs and thought about how my time with these kids is winding down quickly.

I think I'm realizing that the big difference between my former school and my present job is the ability to continue close relationships with students after they exit my class. I don't know what next year will by like, so maybe I will still stay in touch with some of my former students with whom I've bonded this year. However, it seems like it isn't going to be the same. At my former school, I taught upper high school classes, and I taught electives for juniors and seniors. Students could have me as their sophomore year English teacher, then they could take one of my elective classes in their junior or senior year, and I would teach them again. Frequently, that occurred with those students whom I was close to, and it allowed me more time to mentor and teach them. Then, they graduated, but we could still stay in touch via Facebook or email because they were adults, and our relationship could evolve into friendship. I have many 20-something students whose weddings I've attended, Christmas cards I've received, etc. and it is meaningful to me to see where they end up in life and see the full circle of their lives.

Now that I'm teaching such younger students, it isn't the same. They will move on next year and never get to take another class with me as their teacher. Since the district moves them to a different building in ninth grade, I won't be able to pass them in the halls, have them run into my room for advice between classes, watch their participation in pep rallies, or write their college rec letters. So, I feel that my season of influence with these amazing students is coming to a more permanent end.

I hope I said enough. I hope I taught enough life lessons. I hope I shaped their values.

I'll probably shed some tears next week as they rush out of the building towards the sunshine of summer.

I will say a prayer that these amazing students will continue to choose wisely, live lovingly, give generously, and achieve greatly.

Friday, May 14, 2010

I am alive . . . barely

I just want to check in with my five readers (ha!) and let you know that we are alive! I literally have no time to post until school is out in three weeks. I am SWAMPED with end-of-the-year events with my children as well as at my school. I am in charge of a big project for the gifted/talented audit with my school district which is consuming all my spare time at work, and Arden has been sick with a double ear infection, sinus infection, and wheezing this week! We returned today to the pediatrician for the second time this week to find out that her antibiotics weren't helping, and we are trying stronger ones for her ears.

So . . . I probably won't post much, if at all, until after June 8 when I am out for summer. The summer will fly by, as I have meetings that resume on August 5.

Life has been crazy, busy as Stuart is still gone to Camden many weekends, and all my time has been spent trying to keep things running here while he's gone.

Otherwise, we're alive, but tired. I'm enjoying my job, but I will glad when the pace slows down. I will need to figure out how it got so crazy in April and May and try to figure out how to make my life less busy at this time next year!

Friday, April 2, 2010

Roy Arnold Cearley 1939-2010



Stuart's dad, Roy Cearley, passed away early this morning after an 8 month battle with cancer. The link below goes to his online obituary at the funeral home.
Proctor Funeral Home : Camden, Arkansas (AR)

Visitation will be from 5-8 p.m. on Sunday, and the funeral will be at 10 a.m. on Monday. Both events will be held at Proctor Funeral Home in Camden, Arkansas.

We love and miss you, Papaw.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Snow on Spring Break


So, I'm sitting here on an Sunday morning because we couldn't go to church due to the foot of snow outside. Yes, about a foot so far on March 21! Crazy! It was beautiful and high 60's on Thursday and Friday, and the boys went and enjoyed playing basketball at our neighborhood park. I was really getting excited for my long-awaited spring break at that point, as I have a million things on my "to do" list.

Then at school on Friday, I noticed a bunch of my students getting checked out early. I questioned them if they were leaving to travel for spring break, and I heard multiple times that they were leaving early because their parents were worried they needed to leave to beat the snow. SNOW? I couldn't believe it, and I was in denial that we were actually going to have our 5th or 6th major snow since Christmas on the first day of my vacation.

However, nature is stronger than my desires, and snow has been falling pretty constantly since late Saturday afternoon. We were scheduled to have our fence built by a fencing company on Monday or Tuesday, and I am hoping it will melt enough to get it done at the end of the week, but rain is forecasted for Thursday, too. I really want to be home when it's being built. I had planned for the kids to all go to adventure club/daycare on Monday, so that I could go to an appointment and run all my errands. That will probably not happen with the amount of snow that will currently have to melt.

Luckily, Stuart rushed back from Camden yesterday morning to get in before the bad weather hit, or we'd be stuck here alone. I think we'll be making hot chocolate and pulling out the board games later today.

Right now, I'll try to be thankful that we have electricity and heat, and hopefully the snow will end today. I'll probably spend tomorrow doing cleaning instead of errands, and maybe I can get away without the kids later in the week to do some shopping.

Maybe there will be some good Lifetime movies on later. Ha!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

It Matters

Last summer ended with a completely random thought on my part about going back into teaching full-time. It was really just a fleeting thought and one which I didn't think would ever result in a job. God knew differently. My one check on the website which revealed a job opening which had just been submitted. Then, a hastily submitted application which felt like it was just for practice. Then, amazingly enough an interview call, and a job offer, all within a week! I was shocked, dazed, excited, and scared. I went through the open door and took a leap of faith. It was the most out of character thing I'd ever done. How did I, who had been a stay-at-home mom for six years, all of a sudden become a working mom within a week? People who knew me were surprised that I suddenly had a job, when I never had mentioned that I was looking. . . because I wasn't. Until that one day, when I decided to apply on a whim.

So, here we are. Already it is the beginning of fourth quarter. I am finally in a good routine with my children at home, and though life is always busy, it is much more manageable. I am thankful my children have been relatively healthy (Arden even more than Hudson which is amazing). My students are incredibly smart . . . sometimes too talkative and social, but that is their only flaw. I am in awe how much they are learning and how much I am learning from them. I actually use the words "juxtaposition" and "allusion" quite frequently, and they understand me! Quite amazing for 7th graders!

God placed me in this role for a reason. I absolutely love teaching. When I get in front of the class, I see so much potential. Discussing The House on Mango Street has been a joy. I am transformed into the world of the Chicago ghetto and am befriending the protagonist Esperanza. I desperately want my students to connect with her and feel her longings, joy, and pain. My classes are making deep interpretations, and I am amazed when they can explain the significance of why the shop was called the "Peter Pan Photo Finishers" or the irony in the title "The Earl of Tennessee." Be still my heart.

I am planning my next unit on film and poetry and anxiously awaiting being able to dissect Star Wars with them as we study archetypes, and I feel like a young child who is waiting for Santa to come.

But the best part is that what I do matters. When I'm exhausted, and my own child is clingy, I still feel like it's worth it. I have 75 kids this year, and it is quite a job to learn about them, to know them, to connect individually. I've gotten comfortable enough to be myself -- to be honest, crazy, and even silly in front of them. We have enough rapport to tackle embarrassing questions, serious issues, real-life topics. I've finally gotten to the point with most of them that we have a relationship, a bond. Now, I have the kids who come and visit me at lunch and during their rewards day free time. They just want to hang out and talk about their lives. I've earned that privilege, and I don't take it lightly. I look back on the past seven months, and I see how far I've come. Now, I know why the door opened, the job was offered, and why I took the chance.

I hope my students remember my stories, my example, and my faith. I want it to matter. I want them to be better people, better citizens, make better choices, have better options because of what they contemplated in my class. I am blessed that each day I get to matter and make a difference.

I can't wait until tomorrow to begin another day of learning, laughing, and talking.

Carpe Diem.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Arden the Princess




Arden is getting more and more hilarious as her verbal skills are taking off. She is talking constantly in long sentences now, and the things she comes up with are so funny! Today, she called herself "Arden" for the first time. She has said "me" or "my" for awhile, but I had never heard her pronounce her own name. When I woke her up this morning, I walked into her room and said, "Who's in the crib? Is it Sleeping Beauty?" She started giggling and replied, "No, it's just Arden!"

She is starting to memorize and sing a lot too. She now knows her ABC song and has some individual letter recognition. I'm pretty impressed at this for a 26 month old. Potty training is still ongoing, but I'm letting her tell me when she wants to go, and she probably makes it 1/2 the time to the potty and wets her Pull-Up the other half of the time. Today, we were running errands, and she started singing in the backseat, "We will, we will, rock you!" She was singing it on tune, too! I have NO idea where she knew this song or knew the tune! It was too funny.

Arden is also the biggest and tallest girl in her class too. She is now wearing all size 3 clothing! She has just a few pairs of size 2 Gymboree pants that are cut a bit longer that still fit, but other than that we are moving into all size 3 for the spring and summer. Her feet are between a size 7 and 7 1/2 now, and we have shoes in both sizes. I actually bought her a Gap dress at a consignment sale this week that was in a size 4, but it looked like it ran a bit small, and it fits her! I can't believe how old she looks since she has a lot of hair and is so tall. Everyone who sees her in stores when we are out shopping always ask me if she is three years old and can't believe she is only (just barely) two. I did cut Arden's hair (just a trim) on Valentine's Day to try to even out the sides with the back. I think I probably cut about 1 1/2 inches off the very back, and I will probably trim it again in June to get it the same length all the way around. I'm debating if I would like to cut it into a bob at some point since it is so straight, and she doesn't like me to put it up or style it. I'm thinking that might be easier to take care of and get thicker if I kept it between chin and shoulder length. We'll see!

She calls herself a "princess" now and is getting excited about trying on new clothes and playing dress up. She came out of her room last week with three of her shirts all layered over each other, and one as a scarf, holding a purse. She then told us, "I'm so pretty!" I think we tell her too often that she is pretty, and I'm trying to switch that to complimenting her on being "so smart!" Ha.

Do you want to save $1100 in one day?

Are you interested? Do you want to know how I saved over $1100 in only one day? It doesn't require that you sell a new product, invest in anything, or do anything illegal! I simply shopped for my daughter's entire spring/summer wardrobe at a consignment sale and sold my children's outgrown clothing in the process! See, it's that easy.

In central and northwest Arkansas there are sales called Rhea Lana or Duck, Duck, Goose (central AR only) that are these amazing, large consignment sales for kids' clothing, toys, and baby equipment. They offer a good selection, so that it is realistic to purchase a large amount of your child's wardrobe with used clothing. Although other items are sold, I have pretty much stopped shopping for anything but shoes and clothing since we have plenty of toys, and it already takes me three hours just to shop for the clothing, and that is all I can do after teaching all day!

The NW Arkansas Rhea Lana sale was this week. I entered in 100 items of Hudson's and Arden's outgrown clothing to sell. As of this morning, my share of the profits (consignors get 70%) was $250. Yea!

Since I consigned clothing to sell, I got to shop at the presale event which is before the sale opens to the general public. Yes, it is tiring, crowded, and hot, but the dollar savings make a couple of hours and a headache well worth it. You won't be able to find as many good items if you wait until the sale opens publically since a lot will already be picked over. Unfortunately, the consignment sales are really only that lucrative for girls up to around size 7 or boys up to size 4. Once boys start school, their clothes are really not able to be resold well due to wear and tear. I am easily able to buy Arden's entire wardrobe at the two Rhea Lana sales held each year in my area. I stick to name brands for the most part, and then I look to make sure the item is free of stains or a lot of wash wear. However, I'm not too picky about colors, patterns, or trying to find certain lines from Gymboree. I'm about practical (ie: what can she wear to daycare every day?).

This sale I purchased 72 items at the presale and then went back this morning to the 1/2 price sale and bought 20 more items. My total purchases cost $415 which totals to $4.51 average per item! This included two smocked dresses, 3 pairs of Stride Rite shoes, and mostly Gymboree/Children's Place/Gap clothes.

Now, let's do the math for real savings. If I purchased 92 items at retail stores, even on "good" sales, I would probably spend at least $14/item on average to get that many items in the right sizes. That would total $1288. Then, let's subtract what I actually spent at the sale which was $420. That leaves a difference of $873 in SAVINGS for purchasing the same number of clothes! Better yet, let's add to that savings the profit that I earned from selling my clothing at the same event which was $250. So, my total "savings + profit" for this weekend was $1123! Pretty amazing, isn't it.

So, for those of you who think consignment shopping is just too much work, you ought to try it at least once. Here is the break-down of how much time it cost me to participate:
1) hanging old clothes and pricing them online - 3 hours (for 100 items)
2) putting on labels that I printed at home and pinning on the sales tags - 1 1/2 hours
3) checking in my items to sell at the sale - 1 1/2 hours
4) shopping at the sales - 4 hours (includes two trips)
TOTAL: 10 hours labor

If my "savings + profit" was $1123 divided by 10 hours of labor/shopping time, I just made $112 per hour for my time. Yes, I think it is worth the effort. Don't you?

Friday, February 19, 2010

A Full Week

This seemed like the first full week of school that we've had since early January due to all our snow days. Stuart left to go to Camden to visit his parents on Thursday, so he could attend his dad's oncology appointment today. So, I've been single-parenting for the last 24 hours so far.

The week has been pretty good, and fortunately no one had to stay home sick this week. However, we began the week with a plumber cutting out a square of drywall out of our wall behind the master bathroom shower! I came home from work on Monday to see a hole in my wall. That isn't the best way to start the week . . . especially when the plumber revealed that there was actually no leak in that pipe, so the hole was actually a big waste! I then began the hunt to find a drywall repair person who can make my wall look new again. Hopefully, I will get a reasonable quote from someone who is coming to look at the damage tomorrow.

Arden made some big strides this week with potty training and has been going 2-4 times on her own in the potty each day, which is a big increase in the frequency of recognizing that she "needs" to go. I haven't even been taking her at all yet and just letting her tell me when she wants to go. Today she even pooped in the potty for the first time (sorry if TMI!) which is a huge accomplishment. We even called Daddy in Camden to tell him the news. Arden was actually able to talk to him herself and tell him the good news! The boys had a lot of trouble with attempting #2 in the potty, and she is about a year ahead in age of when they began this stage.

I went to a conference in Springdale today, so I had a sub. It was actually a really, really good conference, and I took away many hands-on activities which I plan to try in the classroom in the coming weeks. It focused on integrating drama, art, and music with literature, and the presenters were all from major universities around the U.S.

Owen went to Fast Lane after school with his classroom teacher, as he won an outing with the teacher at a school fundraiser auction earlier this year. He had a great time with several teachers, their winners, and their own children. At first he was a bit apprehensive about spending time with his teacher outside of the classroom, but it turned out to be much more fun than he expected, and it was good for him to see that she is a regular person and a mother, too!

Have a great weekend!

Saturday, February 13, 2010

A little bit of this and a little bit of that

We've been busy, as usual, since my last post. We returned to school after the last round of snow days which I mentioned in the last post, and then we had ANOTHER snow day on Tuesday of this week due to slight ice! So, that makes 8 snow days to make up this year. Our school district voted to give up the student break on Feb. 15-16 and remain in school to make up two of the eight days.

Stuart and I did an early Valentine's date and went to the Todd Agnew, Meredith Andrews, and Pocket Full of Rocks Christian concert here in town last Friday night. We got a babysitter for the kids and really enjoyed it. Stuart worked at the World Vision booth before the concert and during intermission. He has really gotten involved with that ministry which sponsors needy children around the world, and Stuart is working to promote child sponsorship at our local church. We just signed up to sponsor our second child monthly, and this little boy is one who shares the same birthday with Hudson. It is a really neat ministry to communicate with these children across continents and help provide financially for their food, medical care, and education for only $35 per month.

We enjoyed a fun Super Bowl party and fellowship time last Sunday with our small group from church. The kids enjoyed playing, and I think only the husbands and Owen were watching any of the game. I know the Colts were one team, but I couldn't tell you who they played or who won! I just enjoyed visiting with friends, watching the kids play, and eating lots of yummy snack food.

After we returned to school on Wednesday from our snow day, Hudson came home sick. He was subdued in the car when I picked him up on Wednesday afternoon, and then right after dinner began to throw up. So, he stayed home on Thursday with Stuart. Hudson managed to make it back to school on Friday for his class Valentine's party since he hadn't been sick since Wednesday night. However, he was still pale and lacking energy. Well . . . when I picked the boys up from school on Friday, Hudson threw up in the car on the way home from school and then more once I got him inside! Ugh! I guess he wasn't quite over the bug after all, or he tried to eat too much at the party, and his stomach couldn't handle it yet. He is still laying on the couch this morning and also has congestion and a cold. He hasn't gotten sick again, but he is running a slight fever now. I'm just hoping he gets better soon, and that no one else in our family gets the stomach bug!

We don't have any big plans for Valentine's Day since we already used a babysitter last weekend. We might order take-out for tonight and rent a movie or something simple like that. We both agreed that we were just too tired since Hudson is sick to do anything but rest this weekend. However, Stuart did get a really nice "present" this week because we traded his 2009 Honda Civic for a used 2009 Honda CRV! He got the Civic last June when his old 1990 CRV was dying and having engine issues. We couldn't afford a CRV then, and I hadn't gotten my teaching job. Stuart liked the Civic, but he found that he was just too tall to drive it comfortably for longer distances. So, he had been looking for used CRVs that we could trade up for with very little cost difference. He found this used CRV that is royal blue with gray interior that had only 7000 miles and one owner for 7 months! It was a good deal, and it is only a little more each month for us than the Civic was costing. He is so, so happy to be back into a taller vehicle!

Arden is driving me crazy by trying to potty train, which is all her idea since I wanted to wait until school was out. She is refusing to wear diapers and can undress herself and rip them off. She only wants Pull-Ups (which she also takes off about every 30 minutes). She is constantly saying she needs to go pee pee and undressing herself. Yes, she is actually going about once a day on the potty but not consistently. It is a lot of work because she can take off all her clothes and her Pull Up by herself which she routinely does about 15 times per day! The boys NEVER undressed themselves, so this is very different for me at this age of just turning two. Also, she is very independent and stubborn and refuses help with putting clothes back on, so it takes a long time to get her dressed again, and it usually results in her screaming in frustration or anger that I force her to let me help her. I hope she masters the whole potty training thing soon! This stage is exhausting!

Have a good Valentine's weekend!

Monday, February 1, 2010

Snow Days (again!)

We had another large snow on Thursday night and Friday. It began with sleet on Thursday night, and we accumulated around an inch of that. Then on Friday, it snowed literally all day until around 9 at night. It was beautiful to watch, and at times it was really heavy with large snowflakes. It reminded me a lot of when I lived in Colorado where snow like that is common. We ended up with about 5 inches of snow on top of the ice. Needless to say, no one was able to get out on Friday or Saturday. We were stocked up with food, and I don't think many people lost power since we got more snow than ice (compared to the huge ice storm last January). Stuart bought a snow shovel before this snow, and we actually shoveled part of our driveway. This is the first snow shovel we've owned in our entire marriage, so you can tell that the weather is different here than in central Arkansas! Stuart is already talking about getting a 4-wheel drive vehicle as his next car!

I have enjoyed being home with the kids on Friday and today. I think we will probably resume school tomorrow (Tuesday), but today is already our seventh snow day this month! I know that people are upset that school has closed so much because all the days will probably be added onto the school year and push back the date that summer vacation can start. I'm already looking at my last teacher work day as June 10 which is very late. However, I've actually appreciated the snow days! As a working mom this year, I've enjoyed reconnecting with my kids for more frequent breaks and getting projects done around the house without having to wait until Spring Break! Since Arden is in daycare this year, I have missed being with her as much as I was during the week last year, and the snow days have given us lots of time to play and watch Dora together! I don't mind having less summer in order to see my children more frequently along the way. For me, it's been a nice break and a way to reenergize for the rest of the school year.

I can't believe that it's already February today! Wow! I guess most of January was taken up with seven snow days and two large storms. Stuart and I have a sitter and are planning to attend the Todd Agnew concert here in town at a local church on Friday night. I plan to do our taxes in the next week, and I hope we get back a little bit of a refund. Then, the students are out again on Feb. 15-16 while teachers have professional development. We don't have any big Valentine's Day plans, but we might order Mama Fu's for take-out and bring it in.

I've been getting two flooring bids the past couple weeks and trying to figure out the cost of getting wood flooring installed downstairs in our house. I am missing my wood floors terribly since I loved them so much in our last house. Light colored carpet everywhere is NOT kid-friendly! It looks like I've decided on a local, family owned business to do the installation, but no one can get my wood for as low a price as several internet suppliers. They are quoting me $1.75/SF less on the exact brand and style of wood that I know I want because a good friend has it in her house. I want the 5 inch, distressed style planks that work well with kids and pets since they won't show scratches and nicks as much. So, I'm debating if I go through the trouble of having the wood sent by freight to my house where I have to arrange to have it unloaded, meet the delivery truck, and inspect it myself for damage. Right now, I think I will try it for the first flooring project which involves laying wood in the hallway, dining room, and office, since I will save $800 on those rooms alone just by purchasing the wood direct from Georgia. Depending on how much money we can save, I would like to get the first part of the wood flooring done before school gets out for summer.

Well, I'd better start my crock pot meal, so that we can eat tonight! Happy snow day!

Saturday, January 23, 2010

You know you're old when . . .

you get excited to find cabinet knobs half price
you wish for rain in the summer in order to help water your lawn more cheaply
your children tell you that your face is "crinkly"
a student asks if the picture of you and your husband is of you and your son
you fall asleep before 9:30 while watching Grey's Anatomy on DVR
the skin on your hands looks mysteriously more baggy than usual
you are too tired to want to go out on a weeknight after working all day
a coupon for $2.00 off a favorite product is exciting
a date night takes three months of planning to fit into the family schedule
the current big item you're saving for is new flooring for your house
you begin to consider buying that foundation makeup that firms up your skin
you realize that you have worn the same outfit every Saturday for a month because it's comfortable
you have researched Roth IRAs and 403b accounts
your oldest child is almost past your shoulders in height
your 20th wedding anniversary is this year

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

A Year with Frog and Toad


Last Saturday, I took the boys to the Walton Arts Center in Fayetteville to see a play there for the first time. We had been given free tickets to attend the play through Hudson's participation in the H.I.P.P.Y program. This musical was originally a Broadway show that was based upon the children's books about two characters named Frog and Toad. Frog is the happy, upbeat, organized friend, while Toad seems to be grumpy and worried about everything (think "The Odd Couple"). The differences in their personalities make for a lot of humorous events!

Owen and I had seen this play at the Arkansas Children's Theater in Little Rock several years ago, and we had really enjoyed it. However, this was the first time that Hudson had been to a full-length theater production. The Walton Arts Center was amazing, and this version of the play was much more professional than the one I had seen previously (though it was good too). This version completely amazed me, and I would have seen it again, if it hadn't been the final day of the play before the tour left. The actors were professional, New York City trained performers with degrees from places like NYU and the Boston Conservatory. The show included scenes that were not included in the smaller show I'd seen in Little Rock, and the actors were very impressive in their musical and dancing abilities. In fact, we all liked the musical score so much that I just ordered a copy of the CD from the original Broadway version this week, and it should arrive in a few days.

I'm looking forward to singing along with the boys in the car and learning all the rest of the lines! If you ever hear of this play in your town, you really need to take your kids! It was wonderful!

The next production I'm looking forward to is Grease which will also be at the Walton Arts Center in May. I think Owen and I will be attending that one since it's a bit too mature for Hudson, and Owen acted in a short production from Grease at a drama camp. These tickets are a bit pricey, or we might all go. I'm so glad that my children are already loving theater like I do!

Friday, January 8, 2010

Search List 2010


This list is mainly for me since I want to keep a running list of what I am looking for used this year. I will add to it as more things come up that I realize I need/want, and I will update when I've found the items on the list. Since I plan to print my blog as a book each year, this is a fun way for me to remember what I search for during each year!

Search list for used items in 2010:

1. twin mattress and boxsprings for Arden

2. side table/nightstand for Arden

3. Fisher Price Loving People dollhouse furniture and people for Arden's house

4. Leap Frog grocery cart replacement food
*1/28/10: I found a complete used set on Ebay with a good Buy-it-Now price of $20.00. These were discontinued items and hard to find. I had been outbid on many previous auctions for more than this!

5. Custom bedding for master bedroom (queen size)

6. Entertainment center with side bookcases for bonus room (maybe this year, but might be in 2011 due to other house projects)

I found another great deal on Craigslist this week and stumbled upon a like-new Radio Flyer Canopy Wagon that has folding seats and a removable canopy. The owners said they used it twice. It retails at Walmart and Target between $120-$140, and I got it for $40! However, I had to go out in 8 degree weather to test it out in an ice-covered parking lot when I met the lady for pick-up, but it was worth it! It will be wonderful to use to transport all our pool items to our neighborhood pool this summer, plus it will be great at Silver Dollar City and the Tulsa Zoo which I hope to visit this year. Last summer, I realized that all my neighbors used wagons at the pool to haul all the gear and snacks, and I looked for one all summer to purchase. Luckily, most people probably weren't out on the hunt for a wagon in January, so I was able to bargain down the original price. :)

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Snow Days

We are going to be on snow day #3 tomorrow! It just posted on the Bentonville website that they have closed classes again for Wednesday. I guess Bella Vista and more northern roads are still bad because my street is now completely clear. I was actually really wanting to go to work tomorrow because it's getting a little stir crazy being inside with three children and no where to go. They are about bored with electronics and getting restless, too. I think they want to get out and see their friends, and I haven't left the house since Saturday. Now, I'm getting concerned that it will be a long time before Arden goes back to daycare if we are closed until next week which might make her transition rougher for her return and separation from me again.

Unfortunately, more snow is predicted to come in tomorrow night with several inches in accumulation. Since we are only having high temps in the teens right now, nothing is melting much at all. I expected we would go to school on Wednesday, but then we might be out again on Thursday. I really wanted to check in with my students and give them some assignments to do at home in case we got more snow! Ha. They are probably glad we didn't meet after all, even if I had a fun activity planned that involved using toilet paper.

So, I might take the kids out in the next hour to run a few errands before it all refreezes overnight and more snow comes in tomorrow. This is too reminiscient of last January when school closed for a week due to an ice storm. Now, it looks like we will possibly have this entire week out of school and have to make it all up in June.

At any rate, it has been a nice, long break, and I will be ready to go back to school when the snow thaws. God has helped prepare me for the return to work by giving me enough extra rest that I'm actually getting bored!

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Design on a Dime

I like nice things and have a designer taste for my home, but I've always been on a tight budget for decorating. I usually only have a couple hundred dollars at any time to spend in a room, and I've never hired a decorator. I don't even know where to shop to find a sofa that would cost thousands or more. In fact, I am the person who pulled off an entire wedding for $1750 which included the dress! Granted, that was back in 1990, but it was still dirt cheap then. It wasn't fancy or elaborate, but I didn't want to accrue debt for a one-day event (that's my practical side). Now that I've been married for almost 20 years, I don't think I would change my wedding at all except for one thing: I would spend more on photography. That's really the only object of the wedding budget that endures past the one day ceremony. Well, I might consent to better accomodations for our honeymoon since the $35 per night "cottage" was a bit, um, questionable!

Many people comment that they like my home decor and are amazed when I share that the majority of my home furnishings were purchased used, repainted, or handmade. I don't decorate fancy, but I tend to do a mix of traditional/Pottery Barn/Country French. I tend to use approximately 60-70% used/recycled items and then mix it with around 30-40% new, more upscale items (still on sale) that I adore and can't find used. I think that mix helps make the room seem more pulled together, and I like to have one or two "focus" items in the room that are often new items. Then, the cheap stuff appears like it is valuable too! I want my house to look like Pottery Barn, but not be expensive!

My daughter's room is one of my favorite rooms in my house. I think it is because it is the first time I was able to really go all "girly" in one space after living with a houseful of boys! Arden's room is a perfect example of how to mix new plus thrift store/used items. Now, I'm not saying her room is the best, fanciest nursery that I've ever been in, but I can guarantee that it's much less expensive!

If you are trying to branch out to use thrift store or used items, maybe these ideas will inspire you to try it!



This wall is Arden's window, rocker, and crib. The bedding is the inspiration piece for the entire room, as most nurserys are. I found the beddings first . . on Ebay. Yes, it was used. However, it was custom-made, decorator fabric bedding with lots of details like cording in a contrasting fabric and a two layer dust ruffle that is 18 inches long, so it reaches the floor. I didn't see it before I bought it, but I saw a lot of pictures of it on the internet and emailed a few other questions to the seller. I was thrilled with it! The auction included the bedding, lampshade (which is currently not is use until she gets a nightstand), and the slipcover for the child's rocking chair. I paid $150 for all those pieces. I've also found used, custom made dining room drapes (with pinch-pleating!) that I bought on Ebay, so it is worth checking out for custom fabric treatments. I like to benefit from rich people who are redecorating and getting rid of perfectly stylish items!

The crib has been used by SEVEN children, and it's still going strong. It is a Simmons crib that was well-made and sturdy. It has caster wheels and two drop down sides, so it is functional. It was actually my sister-in-law's crib who let me borrow it (free) for my children. Yes, it is now dinged up and has lots of chipped areas, but you really can't tell with the bedding in. Sure, I would have loved a $1000 wrought iron crib with finials (Corsican . . . *sigh*), but I couldn't justify that expense when this free crib works fine and was a traditional style. If you have to choose, I would buy upper scale bedding and a basic (good and functional) crib. The bedding makes the crib and the room more than the crib by itself. Also, consider a crib that would work with both genders, so you can use it multiple times. Craigslist is a good place to look for used baby furniture, since a lot of people sell nice cribs after they are done with them. Don't let a few scuffs or nicks deter you because it will look like that a month after your toddler gets through with it anyway!

The glider was purchased new for Hudson. I made the decision because I was practical, and this Dutailer glider allows you to order replacement cushions in different fabrics. So, instead of buying a fully-upholstered denim rocker for Hudson's nursery, I just switched out his cushions and ordered new toile ones for Arden at 1/3 the cost of a second chair. It's held up great and is very comfortable. Plus, it's slimmer than a fully padded chair, and my nursery rooms are always a bit small. I try to think about how to "repurpose" new items before I buy them, so that they can be moved elsewhere in the house when my needs change. That helps to make the cost of a new item more practical. I've used this chair with two children and in two different nurseries for almost six years!

My two "focus" items which were where I spend 60% of the entire budget for the room are the custom toile drapes and the handpainted canvas above the bed. The drapes were a necessity in my last house because the nursery had a room where sun shone in early in the morning and heated the room. Arden would never sleep in there during the day and was up at 5:00 a.m. in the summer. So, I got these drapes made to coordinate with her bedding and had them lined in blackout fabric, so she would sleep. My boys never had fancy drapes and weren't bothered by light as a baby. The canvas is 36" square, and it was painted by a friend in Little Rock, so it was actually cheaper than one might cost if you ordered it from a catalog. If you know student artists or art teachers, they are good resources to paint custom canvases or murals are a reasonable cost. The cute wooden rocking horse was a Craigslist find for $20, too!



This wall is next to the crib and includes the closet doors. It isn't very exciting since this wall is mainly a closet, but I did get the cute peg shelf at Land of Nod catalog. I love their items, and they have good sales. The painted sign above the closet says, "Dreams do come True," and I ordered it off Ebay for less than in a boutique.



This wall is across from the crib, and it is also full of used items. The main hanging shelf was a handmade wedding gift from one of Stuart's relatives. It started off stained light brown pine, but I eventually painted and distressed it shabby chic. Often, if you can visualize an item in a different color, you can repurpose many thrift store finds by painting them and changing the hardware. I already had everything in the hutch from previous nurseries, my childhood items, or other decor from around my house. Use what you have! The prints on the left are from an old Beatrix Potter book from a thrift store that I cut up and framed. Framing book art is a great idea for children's rooms. The bulletin board was also from a thrift store, and I used a staple gun to attach coordinating fabric from Arden's bedding to cover it. The child's chair was slipcovered with the cover that came with her bedding from Ebay, and I found the chair underneath it at a children's consignment sale for $12.00 (it's actually an ugly blue check), then I simply used upholstery tacks to keep the slipcover in place and make it fit. The bookcase was purchased new since I wanted something sturdy, and it was from Land of Nod catalog.



The final wall is Arden's new play kitchen area. The kitchen was purchased used from Craigslist. The clock is a Storytime clock from Timeworks. They retail around $85, but I found it used on Ebay for $20. I made the square plaque myself from a vintage ceiling tile! I also have one upstairs in our bonus room, and I get a lot of compliments on them. Basically, you need to find a 24 inch square vintage ceiling tile. Where, you ask? I found both mine on Ebay (search: vintage ceiling tile), but flea markets often carry them. I painted over both of mine, then distressed them again, but you can leave them really old and rusty if you want. This one is over 100 years old and came from a church in Nebraska. It cost $40 with shipping on Ebay. I got a piece of wood cut to a 30 inch square and painted it pink (my plaque upstairs is stained dark brown for the wood part to look more Pottery Barn). Then I simply centered the tin to have a three inch border and nailed it on! There are usually holes in the tin edges that I used to attach it. I attached picture hanger screws and wire on the back and threw it up on the wall. I've seen similar decor at designer stores for around $200! It's a pretty cheap statement piece if you need a large 30 inch diameter object to fill a blank wall.

When tackling a design project, select your big items first (furniture, bedding) and see if you can find any of those used. You might have to look for months! Craigslist is great for furniture, and Ebay is good for fabric items that can be shipped. Then, add new and old accessories to finish the look! Remember to always have at least two places any new item can be used in your home, so that you can move things around when you desire or if you move to a new home. That makes everthing work longer, and it gives you the option to mix up your decor when you get tired of it without purchasing much else!

For more design inspiration, check out The Nester's blog since she shares my philosophy and gives me lots of good ideas! Her house is amazing and on a budget!